Weddings & Funerals

Life Cycle Events at St. John’s

Weddings

Weddings are a sacrament in the eyes of God and a joyous occasion in the life of the church and your family. We at St. John’s take great pleasure in sharing the planning and celebration of this life event with you. Couples wishing to be married at St. John’s must first be worshipping at St. John’s, or (if they live elsewhere) another Episcopal Church. At least one party to the marriage must be a baptized Christian. Both parties must evidence a commitment to Christian marriage as defined by the Declaration of Intention and the rubrics of The Book of Common Prayer. Weddings are scheduled at the same time that premarital counseling sessions with the clergy (which are required of all couples being married in an Episcopal Church) are also scheduled. In the case of couples who live elsewhere, counseling may take place with an Episcopal priest in their area. Diocesan and national canons and state law are carefully observed, without exception.

Besides the guidance of our clergy and beautiful building and grounds, St. John’s can provide additional services and support for weddings, including music and rental of the parish hall for a reception or rehearsal dinner. Our Wedding Customary (information packet) outlines the planning process and costs, and lists suggested Bible readings.

St. John’s is only available for weddings planned in consultation with and officiated by our parish clergy, and is not available as a rental venue for ceremonies performed outside the Episcopal tradition or with outside officiants.

Funerals

According to The Book of Common Prayer (p. 507):

The liturgy for the dead is an Easter liturgy. It finds all its meaning in the resurrection. Because Jesus was raised from the dead, we, too, shall be raised. The liturgy, therefore, is characterized by joy, in the certainty that “neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” This joy, however, does not make human grief unchristian. The very love we have for each other in Christ brings deep sorrow when we are parted by death. Jesus himself wept at the grave of his friend. So, while we rejoice that one we love has entered into the nearer presence of our Lord, we sorrow in sympathy with those who mourn.

Families work with the clergy to plan the service, and St. John’s can provide suggestions and referrals for scripture readings, hymns, flowers, and other necessities. Our Funeral Customary (information packet) outlines the planning process, costs and suggested readings and music. Parishioners are invited to keep copies of their funeral and burial wishes on file in the church office; a form for this purpose is available from the church.

It is our privilege to welcome people to St. John’s at the most sacred times of transition and change in their lives. Please contact us for more information about planning a wedding or funeral at St. John’s.